“Go forward in life with a twinkle in your eye and a smile on your face, but with great purpose in heart.” ― Gordon B. Hinckley
Sunday, September 16, 2012
Never stops being one of my favorite songs!
"Home"
Edward Sharpe & The Magnetic Zeros
Alabama, Arkansas, I do love my Ma & Pa
Not the way that I do love you
Holy Moley, Me-oh-My, you're the apple of my eye
Girl, I've never loved one like you
Man, oh man, you're my best friend,
I scream it to the nothingness
There ain't nothin' that I need
Well, hot & heavy, pumpkin pie,
chocolate candy, Jesus Christ
There ain't nothin' please me more than you
Ahh, Home
Let me come Home
Home is wherever I'm with you (2x)
La la la la, take me Home
Baby, I'm coming Home
I'll follow you into the park,
through the jungle, through the dark
Girl, I've never loved one like you
Moats & boats & waterfalls,
alley ways & pay phone calls
I've been everywhere with you
That's true
We laugh until we think we'll die,
barefoot on a summer night
Nothin' new is sweeter than with you
And in the streets we're running
free like i's only you and mee
Geez, you're somethin' to see.
Ahh, Home
Let me come Home
Home is wherever I'm with you (2x)
La la la la, take me HomeBaby, I'm coming Home
Jade?
Alexander?
Do you remember that day you fell out of my window?
I sure do, you came jumping out after me.
Well, you fell on the concrete
and nearly broke your ass
and you were bleeding all over the place
and I rushed you off to the hospital.
Do you remember that?
Yes, I do.
Well, there's something
I never told you about that night.
What didn't you tell me?
While you were sitting in the backseat
smoking a cigarette you thought
was going to be your last,
I was falling deep, deeply in love with you
and I never told you 'til just now.
Now I know.
Ahh, Home
Let me come Home
Home is whenever I'm with you
Ahh, Home
Let me come Home
Home is when I'm alone with you
Home
Let me come Home
Home is wherever I'm with you
Ahh, Home
Yes, I am Home
Home is when I'm alone with you.
Alabama, Arkansas, I do love my Ma & Pa
Moats & boats & waterfalls & pay phone calls
Ahh, Home
Let me come Home
Home is wherever I'm with you
Ahh, Home
Let me come Home
Home is when I'm alone with you
It had been a while since i'd last read the following article. Many people ask me about bdsm and why i enjoy it...not understanding my desire to be with a Dominant. It is hard to put into words exactly what it's about ... but this article does a wonderful job of explaining it.Daddy/little girl does not refer to the ages, real or pretend, of the participants. Nor does it imply closet desires. In my relationship my Dom is not my father, he is nothing like my father, and I have no need for him to replace my father. He is however my Daddy. We do not engage in age play specifically ( beyond the occasional school girl fantasy *s*) and our relationship is not based on any need to have sex with children. I am always all woman, and always a very independent woman.He does have the ability to make me feel like a little girl, however, a very cherished and sometimes needy little girl. It is a feeling that I revel in, it is the safest place I have ever been, and it allows me the freedom to be all that I am without fear of reprisals. Daddy Dom is a feeling, an environment that two people have created. A Daddy Dom is so named because of the qualities he possesses and the service he provides.So, what are these qualities? What is a Daddy Dom?A Daddy Dom wants to be the center of your universe. He wants to be able to provide for your every need and care. But more than that he wants to be able to shape and mold you to the image he thinks you should become. He sees in you someone who can achieve a much higher, much greater status. He believes more in you than you believe in yourself. What he wants in return is to be able to bask in his image of you, the image he has created. To achieve these goals he relies on a combination of love, respect, and discipline.His love for his little girl goes without saying. He loves her as much for who she is as for who she will become with his guidance. She is his prized possession. His eyes light up when she walks into the room and he takes great pride in her successes. After all, he helped to create her. She holds the most tender part of his heart and has the greatest power to hurt him.This love would not be possible without respect. A Daddy Dom needs to feel pride in his little girl. He needs to know she can hold her own in the outside world and still submit to him. He holds the greatest respect for the gift she has given him and takes great pains to increase it’s value. It is extremely important to him to know she can be with any man and she chooses to be with him.He knows that this makes discipline a priority in their lives, more important than in some other D/s relationships. In order for the little girl to really trust, she must know he means what he says. If his little girl is going to be the best she can possibly be he must stand firm. He uses his experience in life and his knowledge of her to provide proper direction and punishment when the need arises.If he does not enforce discipline, this respect becomes a tenuous thing. If his submissive finds that she can manipulate him out of punishing her, she begins to lose respect and the ability to empower becomes impeded. He understands that it becomes increasingly difficult to be possessed by someone you do not respect.This takes great strength on his part. It takes strength to control her, and to shape her to his needs and desires. It takes strength to be her confidant, her shoulder, her anchor. It takes strength to let her out into the world when all he wants to do is hold her safe in his arms. And it takes strength todo what is necessary when she needs to be disciplined.A Daddy Dom provides something else that is very important to his submissive...acceptance. She is safe in his arms because he knows her, everything about her, and he still loves her. When she goes to him she knows that this man knows all of her dirty little secrets and it doesn’t matter. To him she is beautiful.Daddy Dom and sadistic Dom are by no means mutually exclusive. Many Daddy Doms embrace their sadism while understanding and feeding their submissive's masochism. This balance is necessary to many little girls because it allows all parts of her to be nourished, leading to an incredibly fulfilling relationship.I think most Dominants have a bit of the Daddy in them, taking on the role of male authority figure in the submissive’s life and using their power to enrich that life. Daddy/little girl verbalizes that feeling, and adds a dimension of warmth, caring, and ritual that it’s participants crave.There is something infinitely magical about a Daddy Dom. Perhaps it is something only a little girl can understand.This article may only be reprinted on private, no fee to access websites as long as this notice accompanies it and the following link is in place: http://www.subspace.cc/
Seen on Fetlife Post by ResonantYes...thoughts on being a Daddy - "There is no right way to do it, because "it" isn't a thing until you make it one. How you do this Daddy thing is totally a function of you and your partner."
Clarke (Eric Bana) to George (Adam Sandler) in the movie Funny People - "Underneath Anger is Hurt and underneath Hurt is Love."
Hugh Grant in the movie Notting Hill, speaking about his lost love - "It's as if I've taken love heroin and I can't ever have it again."
my good friend emmz aka myironbutterfly speaking about disagreeing with ones Dominant..."the thing is though my relationship is not the same as anyone elses, and while i DO get upset with Daddy and at times and ask other dominants their opinions, i have to remember, they cannnot truly understand what we have and at the end of the day ALL dominants will say they dont agree with another dominant's opinion and then i say to myself, would i submit to any of the one im asking, and i say no...its his house rules or else...."
MisterDrake quoting Marya Hornbacher in response to a comment about someone no longer in my life.....MisterDrake -The best thing to do is to offer no response. “Hatred is so much closer to love than indifference.” ~ Marya Hornbacher
my friend berries, speaking of how life has impacted her, she's such a smart girl ..... berries - "now a dominant woman they would have destroyed, thank heaven i was born a submissive"
Seen in a Collar Me chatroom .....SlaveMonger - I think Lesbians are the secret to a happy Poly household............... Desperado - I thought the secret was oreo cookies.. who knew
Seen on a Collar Me profile credit to Wulf100 - I consider "ouch" a reason to ask if you're ok.
A funny response to a Topic Question seen in Chat on Collar Me credit to The Upper Hand - re topic... u know ure getting old when watching a porno...and cant help thinking...jeez ..that looks a very comfy bed
i am many things, but the over-arching principle that guides my life is my commitment to my role as submissive. As i’ve evolved over the years, i’ve continued to learn and grow. Each new journey has brought about both challenges as well as rewards. One of the best ways i find to help me stay balanced is through writing. i hope that if anyone does find themselves reading my blog, they can find a small piece of insight that might help them find their own balance. Best wishes, jen
youth, maturity and freedom
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I have finally got round to responding to a very interesting comment by D
to my last post. You can read her comment and my response here.
The whole comment...
Endorphin Levels in BDSM
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The endorphin levels in BDSM- A short primer on sending a submissive into
hyperspace!!
This article was suggested at an event I went to, my partner found i...
Grey
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So...It's been a hot minute since I posted here huh. I don't know how to be
be here. I was always me in this forum. Nothing more, and certainly nothing
les...
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