If W/we were together, the things i'd say...
Right now Daddy and i are so far apart. During the day so many things i want to ask Daddy or tell Him, and right now O/our conversations are so limited. Often the time W/we get to talk i forget about what i wanted or needed to ask. i miss Him so much right now but i am being a good girl, patient and hopefully supportive. i hope i offer Him comfort and support.
If my Daddy were able to hear me right now though, here are the things i'd say...
- i miss You Daddy, and i can't wait to begin O/our life together on a more daily basis.
- i hope You know how much i think of You each day and how much i want to please You.
- Last Friday i saw the most beautiful sunrise and i wished W/we'd been together to enjoy it.
- Work's been hard the last couple weeks Daddy, i wish some days i could just feel Your arms around me.
- Skooter left last Tuesday, it's been one week and i have one week to wait before i get Him back...i miss Him, it's lonely without either of You.
- i feel selfish when i want You on the phone every night, especially now that You are sick. You need Your sleep and it's not good for You staying up all hours of the night to call me, but Your calls do mean so much to me.
- Today was our 2 month anniversary...and i wanted to tell You on the phone tonight but i kept forgetting each time we talked.
- This Saturday is my graduation day.
- i think i've found a new technique in looking what i'm supposed to be looking for.
- i have to go to the store tomorrow night and pick up a few things.
- i've been saving dryerlint for O/our next camping trip :o)
- i miss not being able to text You for permission...
- Sometimes i wonder how two people could be so on the same page...
- i hope i will always please You.
- Last night a submissive in chat said they needed a man to take care of them...i responded with, i don't "need" a man to take care of me...i need a Man who i can smother with my devotion. Every day i think about how You are that Man and how i hope You will always be that Man, and how i feel so fortunate that You've found me...
- i'm tired Daddy, will You diaper me and tuck me in?
- i think i will sleep better when W/we are together...
- i can't wait for a time when W/we can have a true scene...one that lasts for a while...one that makes U/us both say "ahhhh"
- i long to feel Your chain on me, Your collar around my neck, Your hands restraining me....
So many things to say...so much left unsaid....soon....
Daddy Doms by kendra
It had been a while since i'd last read the following article. Many people ask me about bdsm and why i enjoy it...not understanding my desire to be with a Dominant. It is hard to put into words exactly what it's about ... but this article does a wonderful job of explaining it.Daddy/little girl does not refer to the ages, real or pretend, of the participants. Nor does it imply closet desires. In my relationship my Dom is not my father, he is nothing like my father, and I have no need for him to replace my father. He is however my Daddy. We do not engage in age play specifically ( beyond the occasional school girl fantasy *s*) and our relationship is not based on any need to have sex with children. I am always all woman, and always a very independent woman.He does have the ability to make me feel like a little girl, however, a very cherished and sometimes needy little girl. It is a feeling that I revel in, it is the safest place I have ever been, and it allows me the freedom to be all that I am without fear of reprisals. Daddy Dom is a feeling, an environment that two people have created. A Daddy Dom is so named because of the qualities he possesses and the service he provides.So, what are these qualities? What is a Daddy Dom?A Daddy Dom wants to be the center of your universe. He wants to be able to provide for your every need and care. But more than that he wants to be able to shape and mold you to the image he thinks you should become. He sees in you someone who can achieve a much higher, much greater status. He believes more in you than you believe in yourself. What he wants in return is to be able to bask in his image of you, the image he has created. To achieve these goals he relies on a combination of love, respect, and discipline.His love for his little girl goes without saying. He loves her as much for who she is as for who she will become with his guidance. She is his prized possession. His eyes light up when she walks into the room and he takes great pride in her successes. After all, he helped to create her. She holds the most tender part of his heart and has the greatest power to hurt him.This love would not be possible without respect. A Daddy Dom needs to feel pride in his little girl. He needs to know she can hold her own in the outside world and still submit to him. He holds the greatest respect for the gift she has given him and takes great pains to increase it’s value. It is extremely important to him to know she can be with any man and she chooses to be with him.He knows that this makes discipline a priority in their lives, more important than in some other D/s relationships. In order for the little girl to really trust, she must know he means what he says. If his little girl is going to be the best she can possibly be he must stand firm. He uses his experience in life and his knowledge of her to provide proper direction and punishment when the need arises.If he does not enforce discipline, this respect becomes a tenuous thing. If his submissive finds that she can manipulate him out of punishing her, she begins to lose respect and the ability to empower becomes impeded. He understands that it becomes increasingly difficult to be possessed by someone you do not respect.This takes great strength on his part. It takes strength to control her, and to shape her to his needs and desires. It takes strength to be her confidant, her shoulder, her anchor. It takes strength to let her out into the world when all he wants to do is hold her safe in his arms. And it takes strength todo what is necessary when she needs to be disciplined.A Daddy Dom provides something else that is very important to his submissive...acceptance. She is safe in his arms because he knows her, everything about her, and he still loves her. When she goes to him she knows that this man knows all of her dirty little secrets and it doesn’t matter. To him she is beautiful.Daddy Dom and sadistic Dom are by no means mutually exclusive. Many Daddy Doms embrace their sadism while understanding and feeding their submissive's masochism. This balance is necessary to many little girls because it allows all parts of her to be nourished, leading to an incredibly fulfilling relationship.I think most Dominants have a bit of the Daddy in them, taking on the role of male authority figure in the submissive’s life and using their power to enrich that life. Daddy/little girl verbalizes that feeling, and adds a dimension of warmth, caring, and ritual that it’s participants crave.There is something infinitely magical about a Daddy Dom. Perhaps it is something only a little girl can understand.This article may only be reprinted on private, no fee to access websites as long as this notice accompanies it and the following link is in place: http://www.subspace.cc/
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